TRANSITIONS
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It's been years (2 and a half to be precise) since my last blog post and so much has changed in the blogging world. Can't really say what the hiatus was about but I can honestly say I ran out of inspiration. The past 3 years haven't been quite as I planned out as I left a job where I was happy but not growing to take on a junior position where I felt stagnant for the 1st year and a half, then applied for another position in the same company, which was a bit better but all the same not what I wanted, to getting an Executive Assistant role which was all great on paper but I had an indifferent feeling that I couldn't shake.
As much as I love what I do, I based all my tasks and decisions to my previous roles at the company, which were mostly excluded with no clear direction. I drifted along for the first 8 months with no clear vision of where I wanted to be. At this point, I realised that I was self sabotaging and should start including myself in conversations and work that matter. At least if I did that, I'd get a clear "We don't need your help with this" or Thanks for offering, this is how you can help us".
That brings me to the part where I realised that "no one knows what I want until I do and go after it". My victim like state wasn't going to get me anywhere. My curiousity was opening doors for me. I'm starting to say "Yes" more often and am starting to fall inlove with myself again because I cannot let a bad 3 years define the rest of my life.
I have realised 3 things with this experience.
1. The grass is not always greener on the other side - As much as I was frustrated about my previous employer, at least I knew where I stood. I had c lear knowledge of when I was failing and where I was excelling. Transparency was a big part of the business, which is what I miss.
2. Companies can say 1 thing but mean the other - This might not come as a surprise but most companies sell this beautiful picture about your voice being heard and how your opinion matters. I learn't this the hard way where I thought there was an open door policy but if someone close to the managers mentions that you're not living company values, they would have you out the door for having an opinion.
3. Make the most of your experiences - At my current job, I have a circle of friends that are lifetime friendship material. They a re people I can share my frustrations with, have fun with and trust to have my back.
As I strive to be the best in what I do and exceed expectations, I can, with confidence say that destiny led me here as I have countless life experiences that I've ever had previously. I have learnt to unlean most things and learn them again with a beginners mind. I am happy with myself and the journey continues.
Love,
Lo
It's been years (2 and a half to be precise) since my last blog post and so much has changed in the blogging world. Can't really say what the hiatus was about but I can honestly say I ran out of inspiration. The past 3 years haven't been quite as I planned out as I left a job where I was happy but not growing to take on a junior position where I felt stagnant for the 1st year and a half, then applied for another position in the same company, which was a bit better but all the same not what I wanted, to getting an Executive Assistant role which was all great on paper but I had an indifferent feeling that I couldn't shake.
As much as I love what I do, I based all my tasks and decisions to my previous roles at the company, which were mostly excluded with no clear direction. I drifted along for the first 8 months with no clear vision of where I wanted to be. At this point, I realised that I was self sabotaging and should start including myself in conversations and work that matter. At least if I did that, I'd get a clear "We don't need your help with this" or Thanks for offering, this is how you can help us".
That brings me to the part where I realised that "no one knows what I want until I do and go after it". My victim like state wasn't going to get me anywhere. My curiousity was opening doors for me. I'm starting to say "Yes" more often and am starting to fall inlove with myself again because I cannot let a bad 3 years define the rest of my life.
I have realised 3 things with this experience.
1. The grass is not always greener on the other side - As much as I was frustrated about my previous employer, at least I knew where I stood. I had c lear knowledge of when I was failing and where I was excelling. Transparency was a big part of the business, which is what I miss.
2. Companies can say 1 thing but mean the other - This might not come as a surprise but most companies sell this beautiful picture about your voice being heard and how your opinion matters. I learn't this the hard way where I thought there was an open door policy but if someone close to the managers mentions that you're not living company values, they would have you out the door for having an opinion.
3. Make the most of your experiences - At my current job, I have a circle of friends that are lifetime friendship material. They a re people I can share my frustrations with, have fun with and trust to have my back.
As I strive to be the best in what I do and exceed expectations, I can, with confidence say that destiny led me here as I have countless life experiences that I've ever had previously. I have learnt to unlean most things and learn them again with a beginners mind. I am happy with myself and the journey continues.
Love,
Lo
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